I dont know why people interfere in each other's thinking and life.I have been meeting many people in my college life who think that what they think is right and everyone else is just fooling around knowing nothing.
Let me tell u,I am very much fond of POLITICS.I think its very important for each one of us to know what is happening in our country,how the government is functioning.Who is doing what for the country.I think its kind of necessary to be updated about this section of knowledge too.
We had many debates in our hostel about all this political stuff and about various incidences in that time that happened.Most of them were initiated by me as i wanted to know what other people thought about it.Let me clearly tell you,i am a very secular person.I think people are of two types,one GOOD and the other BAD.A person's religion has NO PLACE in my heart.
But my thoughts did not match up with some of my hostel mates.They thought that hindus were the best lot of people and muslims were bad and they should not be included in our society.They thought that all the terrorist attacks in the world are carries out by muslims which i think many of u also think the same.No my friends,the ajmer blasts were carries out by a section of hindu extremists.RSS,Bajrang Dal,VHP etc are all Hindu extreamist groups though they dont clearly disclose this unlike those groups of muslims.
I sometimes like Ajmer a lot.I have not seen such a secular place in my life before.There are Hindus,Christians,sikhs,sindhis,muslims,jews in ajmer and each religion is duly respected by everyone.
So,what all happens in a college life????People think that they are mature enough to do anything they like.I too think the same but there are both a positive side and a negative side to it.Some people in my hostel started smoking and drinking liquor.Gradually it spread in the whole hostel.I was also called sometimes for this but i clearly asked them not to do so again.I have a resolution in place for me that i will never smoke and drink liquor in my life.whatever happens,i will not do it unless it is completely necessary.
Some guys in my college think that smoking makes a guy a dude.They think that if you smoke,u are more stylish and are therefore studs.I think if u think urself as a dude or a stud then u are one.Smoking cant make u a stud.It is the "KARMA" that u do,that KARMA makes u a stud.
SOME CHANGES IN ME (effects of the college life)
- i have started caring about my life.i dont take any unwanted risks more that can endanger my life.
Like ,i drive slow.People often say "Saala Fattu Hai Tu Toh", but it doesnt matter to me.Whenever,i am a pillion to someone,i make sure that the rider is moving slow.I am not afraid of speed but i think that my life is at risk.Having faced an accident in my college life made myself overprotective.Also,seeing many youngsters being killed in road accidents in ajmer made me like this.
- i earlier used to tell my friends to read english newspapers everyday in order to improve their language skills.I asked them not to smoke and drink.I changed the thinking of some of the guys in the hostel regarding dowry.Many of them used to say that "BAS EK BAAR SHADI HO GAI NAA,FIR DEKHNA,GHAR KE AAGE SCORPIO HOGI AUR BAHUT SAARA CASH MILEGA".Once i heard this,i thought that someone must be joking about it but then i realised that they were serious about it.I gave a lecture to all of them regarding the dowry thing.Some people understood it some dint.I have made myself clear that i will not accept any kind of dowry or anything in my marriage.So,now the change is that i have stopped tell all my friends about what they shud do and what they shud not do.I think i was making a fool of myself asking them to do things which i felt were right.
Well,its enough for today,
P.S : Dear readers,i am absolutely frank at this blog space.
Thanks for reading the post.
Urs
-VRS
Monday, December 20, 2010
Sunday, December 19, 2010
How My College Life Began
8th SEPT. 2008 , 7:30 am
My train was about to arrive at ajmer junction.i looked out through the window and what i saw was heaven and hell together for the first time.
One one side was a leaking sewage line wid all rubble there.pigs playing in the dirtiest of waters and plastic lying everywhere.And on the other side were aravali ridges.It was raining and the clouds covered the ridge tops.
I really feel that ajmer is no less than Shimla in this kind of weather.
For the first time in my life,I was visiting “Khwaja Ki Nagri”.My “Karma Bhumi”.We took an auto to the CPWD guest house,got ready and were on our way to my college.My father (also one of my idols) inquired about every mode of PUBLIC TRANSPORT available in ajmer so that I could not face any problem commuting alone in ajmer.Finally,we were at my college.i registered myself at the counter and took the admission slip.Took a round of the college.Visited labs,lecture halls,tutorial rooms and of course the CANTEEN(I am fond of food).Had our lunch there and went back to the guest house and departed for delhi in the night.
16th Sept 2008, 7:30 am
With all my stuff and a sorrow heart,I along wid my mom n dad were at ajmer station again.We went to the same guest house again and were at college by noon.I chose “Sharma Hostel” and we all went there.i chose a room and kept all my stuff there.Went back to the guest house and next day,17th Sept,I had my first day of college.my parents accompanied me to college and I went for my classes and they left to explore the city.
It was the saddest of the evenings in my life till now.Parents were leaving for delhi and I stayed behind for my studies.The weather was bad (though it was the same weather when ajmer==shimla) but it was bad.Rain,lightning,wind etc. Also,there was water logging outside my hostel and it was difficult for each one of us to go out.I saw my parents to the last point I could.Eyes were full of tears though I dint cry.i was about to cry but the presence of Lokesh,Satish,Digambar,Anuj (my room mate in hostel) made me hold my tears from coming out.i don’t know if they would have not been there,what would have happened to me dat day.
The first day was over and I had met only a few ppl from my batch.’F’ batch.There were very less students in the lectures and teachers told us that regular classes will be held after 5 days as student strength was less.i ran to my hostel,packed my stuff and was on board a bus to delhi.i was full of joy that time.thinking about delhi and home made my heart feel awesome.i again was full of life,started singing songs,jumping,dancing,muttering continuously.
Those 5 days in delhi were full of fun but after that,again,Ajmer was calling me.But it was different for me this time.i felt independent,responsible,mature for the first time.And I had made my heart stronger in those 5 days that I am in ajmer for myself and because of me. So I had to adjust to the place.My hostel was full of ppl by the time I went back again.All the guys were nice.We all played cricket togeather and enjoyed our life together.I somehow adjusted in ajmer.I chatted wid my hostel mates,played games,talked about our college girls [I was in a boys hostel ;)] etc.In short we all made efforts to be occupied so that we could not think about our homes.we did not study for 3 months ( I admit).It was all fun in our 1st sem at college.we played cricket for a minimum of 6 hours a day and weekends were just full of it.We did not stop playing.It was a burning weather.playing cricket in 44 degrees of temperature may make you ill but it was all we did as it made us happy.There was no relation between exams and cricket.We had to play means we had to play.We even played cricket before every theory exam.We saw India’s cricket matches on the tv sets at the tea stalls.went to our college campus in the night just to fill our water bottles coz unhygenic was being used for drinking in the hostel.We sometimes got a tv on rent and dvd’s of latest bollywood and hollywood movies.We often were on hunger strike on Sundays because the authorities had to make a special menu and they did not make it.Finally they had to listen to our demands and we had food late on Sundays.The nights were fun.All the hostellites on the roof wid their mattresses and pillow as the rooms turned Tandoor in the summers.We all chatted,played games,used to call our respective telecom operators’ customer care and used to play pranks on them.In this while,I had met many ppl,many friends who still are one of my best friends.I usually went to home once in a month or if there was a continuous 2-3 days of holiday.1st Sem theory exams were about to begin when my parents and my grandparents gave me the nicest of surprises.They were in ajmer to meet me.My dad,mom,nanaji,naniji,adi(bro),nikhil (bro).No exam pressure was on me.Seeing them,I felt ecstatic.We all went to explore ajmer.Everyone visited my hostel and received a very warm welcome by my hostel mates.
1st sem theory exams were over.I did gud in some subjects but I had a doubt in 2 subjects as I dint like them.Physics and Electronics have always been my weakness.however,we were done wid the exams and were at our homes after it
P.S : I know its too lenghty and a lil bit boring but it is just a beginning.More stuff to follow esp. TARANGINI 2009(our college’s annual fest)….from where it all began
Its time guys,hope u continue reading my blogs.Take care .
Bye : )
My train was about to arrive at ajmer junction.i looked out through the window and what i saw was heaven and hell together for the first time.
One one side was a leaking sewage line wid all rubble there.pigs playing in the dirtiest of waters and plastic lying everywhere.And on the other side were aravali ridges.It was raining and the clouds covered the ridge tops.
I really feel that ajmer is no less than Shimla in this kind of weather.
For the first time in my life,I was visiting “Khwaja Ki Nagri”.My “Karma Bhumi”.We took an auto to the CPWD guest house,got ready and were on our way to my college.My father (also one of my idols) inquired about every mode of PUBLIC TRANSPORT available in ajmer so that I could not face any problem commuting alone in ajmer.Finally,we were at my college.i registered myself at the counter and took the admission slip.Took a round of the college.Visited labs,lecture halls,tutorial rooms and of course the CANTEEN(I am fond of food).Had our lunch there and went back to the guest house and departed for delhi in the night.
16th Sept 2008, 7:30 am
With all my stuff and a sorrow heart,I along wid my mom n dad were at ajmer station again.We went to the same guest house again and were at college by noon.I chose “Sharma Hostel” and we all went there.i chose a room and kept all my stuff there.Went back to the guest house and next day,17th Sept,I had my first day of college.my parents accompanied me to college and I went for my classes and they left to explore the city.
It was the saddest of the evenings in my life till now.Parents were leaving for delhi and I stayed behind for my studies.The weather was bad (though it was the same weather when ajmer==shimla) but it was bad.Rain,lightning,wind etc. Also,there was water logging outside my hostel and it was difficult for each one of us to go out.I saw my parents to the last point I could.Eyes were full of tears though I dint cry.i was about to cry but the presence of Lokesh,Satish,Digambar,Anuj (my room mate in hostel) made me hold my tears from coming out.i don’t know if they would have not been there,what would have happened to me dat day.
The first day was over and I had met only a few ppl from my batch.’F’ batch.There were very less students in the lectures and teachers told us that regular classes will be held after 5 days as student strength was less.i ran to my hostel,packed my stuff and was on board a bus to delhi.i was full of joy that time.thinking about delhi and home made my heart feel awesome.i again was full of life,started singing songs,jumping,dancing,muttering continuously.
Those 5 days in delhi were full of fun but after that,again,Ajmer was calling me.But it was different for me this time.i felt independent,responsible,mature for the first time.And I had made my heart stronger in those 5 days that I am in ajmer for myself and because of me. So I had to adjust to the place.My hostel was full of ppl by the time I went back again.All the guys were nice.We all played cricket togeather and enjoyed our life together.I somehow adjusted in ajmer.I chatted wid my hostel mates,played games,talked about our college girls [I was in a boys hostel ;)] etc.In short we all made efforts to be occupied so that we could not think about our homes.we did not study for 3 months ( I admit).It was all fun in our 1st sem at college.we played cricket for a minimum of 6 hours a day and weekends were just full of it.We did not stop playing.It was a burning weather.playing cricket in 44 degrees of temperature may make you ill but it was all we did as it made us happy.There was no relation between exams and cricket.We had to play means we had to play.We even played cricket before every theory exam.We saw India’s cricket matches on the tv sets at the tea stalls.went to our college campus in the night just to fill our water bottles coz unhygenic was being used for drinking in the hostel.We sometimes got a tv on rent and dvd’s of latest bollywood and hollywood movies.We often were on hunger strike on Sundays because the authorities had to make a special menu and they did not make it.Finally they had to listen to our demands and we had food late on Sundays.The nights were fun.All the hostellites on the roof wid their mattresses and pillow as the rooms turned Tandoor in the summers.We all chatted,played games,used to call our respective telecom operators’ customer care and used to play pranks on them.In this while,I had met many ppl,many friends who still are one of my best friends.I usually went to home once in a month or if there was a continuous 2-3 days of holiday.1st Sem theory exams were about to begin when my parents and my grandparents gave me the nicest of surprises.They were in ajmer to meet me.My dad,mom,nanaji,naniji,adi(bro),nikhil (bro).No exam pressure was on me.Seeing them,I felt ecstatic.We all went to explore ajmer.Everyone visited my hostel and received a very warm welcome by my hostel mates.
1st sem theory exams were over.I did gud in some subjects but I had a doubt in 2 subjects as I dint like them.Physics and Electronics have always been my weakness.however,we were done wid the exams and were at our homes after it
P.S : I know its too lenghty and a lil bit boring but it is just a beginning.More stuff to follow esp. TARANGINI 2009(our college’s annual fest)….from where it all began
Its time guys,hope u continue reading my blogs.Take care .
Bye : )
Saturday, December 18, 2010
My First Blog
So,Hello People....
This is my first blog...as i am new to the blogging world,i wud like to make my first blog simple...
its 18th Dec 2010....time 9:26 PM........5th sem theory exams from 29th Dec....in short,"Apni Toh Lagi Padi Hai"....
But still,i am relaxing a bit...i think college has completely changed my way of taking things....i take some things seriously and some lightly....
to be absolutely frank,"Ab Mujhe Gussa Nahi Aata Hai"
i was really a short tempered guy before i joined my college,but after that,i have learned a lot of things.....how to convince people,how to maintain relations,how to keep in touch wid all the college mates...
i mean its really tuf to keep in touch of each any every guy in college but i have made it somewhat easier for me...
i am one of the very active students of my college and i am really proud of it coz most of the ppl complete there graduation doing nothing in their college life...
i did not want to be one such of a person......i wanted that ppl shud know who i am and what i am.....people gradually came up and we came in touch....
My first day in college
i exactly remember the date
17th Sept 2008,
Place : ECA (old campus),ajmer / PR bhawan
My first class and my first graduation teacher
workshop techniques and my teacher on the very first day of the first class was Anurag sir...
.............
.
.
.
.
.
Oopps,i m late for my studies
catch u all later
keep reading the blog
.....More interesting stuff to follow,
Bye
This is my first blog...as i am new to the blogging world,i wud like to make my first blog simple...
its 18th Dec 2010....time 9:26 PM........5th sem theory exams from 29th Dec....in short,"Apni Toh Lagi Padi Hai"....
But still,i am relaxing a bit...i think college has completely changed my way of taking things....i take some things seriously and some lightly....
to be absolutely frank,"Ab Mujhe Gussa Nahi Aata Hai"
i was really a short tempered guy before i joined my college,but after that,i have learned a lot of things.....how to convince people,how to maintain relations,how to keep in touch wid all the college mates...
i mean its really tuf to keep in touch of each any every guy in college but i have made it somewhat easier for me...
i am one of the very active students of my college and i am really proud of it coz most of the ppl complete there graduation doing nothing in their college life...
i did not want to be one such of a person......i wanted that ppl shud know who i am and what i am.....people gradually came up and we came in touch....
My first day in college
i exactly remember the date
17th Sept 2008,
Place : ECA (old campus),ajmer / PR bhawan
My first class and my first graduation teacher
workshop techniques and my teacher on the very first day of the first class was Anurag sir...
.............
.
.
.
.
.
Oopps,i m late for my studies
catch u all later
keep reading the blog
.....More interesting stuff to follow,
Bye
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